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Ask Biella: “Is it better to be realistic rather than being optimistic?”

Realism Dear Amirul, if we are truly realistic, we also have to be optimistic. 🙂 Maybe it doesn’t seem so,…

Ask Biella: “Is there a step by step for setting intent?”

Wants and Desires If I have to say, I’d say it starts with tuning in to what we really really…

Ask Biella: “Are narcissists predictable?”

Self-Obsessive They are, extremely so. A key perspective to remember about narcissists is that they are also obsessives. Their obsession…

Ask Biella: “What is the biggest motivation of our life?”

Life-Motivation Dear Amirul, Motivation varies so much from individual to individual and if we examine why, it seems random. However,…

Ask Biella: “Healthy wealthy happy and free which is more important?”

Dear Adwoa, I would have to say free. Let me just throw wealth out right away. There are plenty people…

Ask Biella: “How do you become a happy pessimist? I just don’t know how to think positively.”

Dear Kerry, A few perspectives come to mind, most concerning definitions. Let’s look at what we might mean with the…

Ask Biella: “How do you maintain your positive outlook in life?”

“How do you maintain your positive outlook in life?” Positive NecessityDear Sandy, for me personally, it started because I had…

Ask Biella: “Has anyone on Quora been able to change a deeply entrenched view of yours?”

“Has anyone on Quora been able to change a deeply entrenched view of yours?” Dear Sean, there are two core…

Ask Biella: “How can I even get him to talk to me?”

“How can I even get him to talk to me?” “How do I make him see I’m not like the…

Ask Biella: – “Which is more preferable of the two, mindfulness or training your brain to think positive in every situation?”

“Which is more preferable of the two, mindfulness or training your brain to think positive in every situation?” Dear Questioner,…